Denial

Two nights ago my wife was hurting and tired as well as I was.  Once we were settling in bed she told me "I promise to give you some soon".  At that moment I was in ecstasy as well as just slightly down.  Down to the fact I absolutely love being inside my wife and getting to enjoy the feel of it (my dick might be small as in only 4 1/2" but it fills her nicely) but the ecstasy overruled the down feeling as I sat there in denial of her body.  My dick was going to be locked up for atleast one more night and when that thought rushed through my head I got excited and thrusted as if I were inside her.  Last night we were both tired.  I had been up since 4 AM for work and she was busy most of the day with applying and researching jobs as well as our side hobby/job of posting stuff on eBay.  She finally came to bed and told me how she wish she didn't have so much going on where she could have taken a shower and came to bed earlier to spend time with me.  Well me being horny I immediately took that as cuddle/be intimate with each other.  After that left her mouth, my thoughts were the same as the night before except only stronger ecstasy this time that I was denied again and will be waiting atleast another night.  
    When I get locked in the cage we never discuss a date, I just tell her to unlock me whenever she wants to feel me because it is no longer about my pleasure, it is instead all about her pleasure; therefore I get left locked for atleast a week at a time - it is a huge rush.  Being over a week now locked away and horny I know I will have to stay locked in my cage while we first start being intimate again while I perform oral service and caress her because I know once she unlocks me, my 4 1/2" dick will definitely find its way to your sweet warming pussy and end up coming before she gets warmed up.

strapon over cage

Well I have now found a site that shows one of my tease and denial fantasies.  That is strapon over chastity.  She gets pleasure while keeping me locked up.  Im not so much into the whole cuckold or give her a bigger dick and make her into a whore ordeal but just simply loving the thrill of giving her pleasure in kinky ways.  The thought of her getting off while denying me really sends me off into an ecstasy world.  Her cumming while my dick is frustratingly off to the side and locked away is all smiles for me.   Her pleasure excites me.

    Now if she wants one bigger then that I will be ok, ill get her a big dildo and ill go to town on her.  That choice is hers and it wont hurt my feelings at all because I live for and love pleasing her She will just have to open up and let me know.   I dont really focus on myself pleasures cus her pleasure is mine. Just as much as I love being denied, I at the same time want to make sweet passionate love and also pound her pussy hard all equally the same.

I would love nothing more than to see total satisfaction on her face no matter what lengths I have to go to provide that, my own dick and motion, strapon, using a bigger dildo, oral, threesome or foursome play, ect.   So back on topic of strap on over the cage topic, here is the link for some visuals and captions.  Her pleasure and my denial is my fantasy here.

http://strappinguy.tumblr.com/


Here is another way of denial that seems interesting hmmmm

http://mistressivey.blogspot.com/2011/04/penetration-without-ejaculaion.html?zx=fd6d0754b7f18464



Updated: 3 hours after posting the above.

Ok the last time I measured my dick I came in at 6".  This measurement was from several years ago.  I've noticed within the past year my dick seamed to not be 6" anymore but I thought its close enough.  Well I got my Princess and myself a toy not long ago that was 6" long that goes over my chin so I can still give her oral while she is enjoying the dildo.  We quickly found out that this hurt her.  I just thought it was only at most an inch longer and that was the deal.  I found her one at 4 1/2" to replace that one. 

Well I became horny at lunch today and was on my Kindle browsing around.  I noticed I was fully erect and I had a quick thought to measure my member.  I grasped it and for sure knew it was rock hard and had no softness to it.  I pulled the ruler out and came up to 4 1/2".  Well that explains why my Princess was hurting with the 6" dildo.  We were trying to stuff an extra 2" in there. 

I suppose most men would be disheartened by this, but not me.  Here is the reason why I am guessing.  If its too small for her then there are other ways I can please her.  I can perform oral, this brings her pleasure.  Play with her clit until she comes.  Use the "motion in the ocean" with it as I have been doing.  I can use the 6" dildo in hopes to fully fill her pussy as it should.  Just because my member got shorter doesn't mean I can't still provide good love making sessions and/or pound her pussy with a 4 1/2" member.  I can do that or whip out the 6" strapon/dildo and enjoy being with her.  This is all about her satisfaction/pleasure not mine!!!  I will always be able to masturbate if she allows.  I can/will always be able to cum with her no mater what.  Hasn't been a problem and it never will be - even with the use of the strapon/dildo, I'll still be able to cum when inside her, no doubt!   It somewhat excites me a little more now that I see her another reason to tease me.  The whole denial thing had a good kick I loved, give it another reason to be denied and it makes it even more exciting. 

Princess I will not go into the dumps, depression, or whatever else if you call it short.  That will not lower my self esteem at all!!!!!  Please understand that.  I know what I have and while its useable just as we have been doing there are so many other things we can do to provide you full pleasure.  I look forward to a lifetime of getting to be inside you and feel you and then also being teased and denied while providing oral and using other toys.  Having sex and intimate sessions with you will always be great.

Carrot

My sweet wife and I were working through a fuss we had during the day which led me to referring her beautiful body to a carrot.  I told her that not having sex and intimacy with her is like dangling a carrot in front of a carrots face teasing him.  I love my wife and I think the world of her.  I enjoy and appreciate the privilege of watching her body revel itself when she is getting ready for bed or just changing clothes in general.  She tells me the way I stare at her is uncomfortable like she is a piece of meat but to me she is much more than that.  I cherish that body!  She sees imperfections all the while I see nothing but beauty.
      I don't necessarily submit to her as we have an equal relationship but I will assure you she could easily whip me if she wanted to.  I see a brief taste of this as now she refers to herself as Carrot.   She sways and poses her body and tells me how do I like her carrot.  If that power ever got transitioned into asking me to do things for her...Id be wimped.  However she is not like that but its a great tease and arousal when she portrays it.  She and I both believe in equal say so around the house and upon decision making.  It is healthy for a relationship to be this way.
     I have been reading and researching over the past weeks when I would get horny or have the time to research about men who WANT to please their wife's more than themselves and it seems I am not alone.  Several men show their commitment by going into chastity and handing the key to their wife to give her this control (huge turn on upon reading).  Some men ask their wife to give them chores or task to do to relieve the pressure of them doing it or to allow their wife to go out with her girl friends or to have a relaxful evening watching movies.   It is a sweet and sincere gesture and to some including me this is another huge turn on.  I know my wife is no lazy woman but for some odd reason with her I just feel as though I should do anything I can to remove any stress and tension from her - hell why not when my dick gets rock hard just thinking of it.  My wife is very head strong on helping around the house and wanting to do the same to me in return - relieve the stress of me doing anything.  So I am blessed as well as she is blessed and somewhere we will find mutual ground to relieve each other. 
    I wish she would give in though because this just goes back to the Carrot issue.  I would do anything for her in order to have sex and intimacy with her.  I would do anything to ensure she got to cum regardless of if I did or not.  I have been one to always think of her and buy and do things for her instead of for myself however the strength to do so for her has only been intensifying over the past weeks and days. 
    I'm not sure what extent I draw the line in order to ensure her pleasure or happiness but right now its an endless list of what I would do for her.  If my wife tells me something is a fantasy or a turn on to me - it is an instant turn on to me.  Every fantasy she has told me has become mine to do for/to her.  To see a smile on her face, to see sweet ecstasy come over her would please me and is all I would want.

Even the request in these pictures do not turn me away.  I would do them all at the drop of a hat to show my love and commitment and devotion to her.  I love you Carrot.